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Tuesday, December 15, 2009
What Gift can I give?
In the hustle and bustle of Christmas time, the crazed streets filled with people shopping for the perfect gift, the wrapping of presents, while carols are being sung. We often forget the true meaning of Christmas and who it is about. There isn't anything wrong with celebrating Christmas with gifts to our friends and family its a part of our lives. The main focus for me this year is What Gift Can I give back? God gave me so much on Christmas day two thousands years ago. He sent His ONE and ONLY son to earth in human form. He sent Him so that I would be forgiven of my sins when I became a believer. He sent his one and only so that I might experience a love I could not afford. He showed me mercy and grace and saved my wretched, twisted soul. See He has given me so much and I give him so little. I can't give him anything that He doesn't already have. However, I do realize that there is ONE thing I can give and its the only thing he wants from me.
This past Sunday at church my cousin's daughter Kylie recited a poem that really touched my heart. Here's what it says...
What can I give Him as poor as I am
If I were a Shepherd
I would give a lamb
If I were a wise man
I would do my part
What can I give him?
I give him my heart.
That's exactly what I am doing this year. I am going to surrender completely to Him. I have given him areas of my life but not completely let go. I have such a hard time doing so. If I give up all of myself what will happen? Where will this take me? Those are the questions that keep me from complete surrender. Yet I know that my life is good hands. He will lead me where he wants, he will guide me, take care of me. I have NOTHING to lose by giving up my life entirely to him. In fact, I have EVERYTHING to gain by complete surrender. That's my gift to him this year. A completely surrendered heart not holding anything back what so ever. Tis the only thing I have to offer that is worth anything to him. And when I do, oh boy I do believe that life will surely be different!!!!
This past Sunday at church my cousin's daughter Kylie recited a poem that really touched my heart. Here's what it says...
What can I give Him as poor as I am
If I were a Shepherd
I would give a lamb
If I were a wise man
I would do my part
What can I give him?
I give him my heart.
That's exactly what I am doing this year. I am going to surrender completely to Him. I have given him areas of my life but not completely let go. I have such a hard time doing so. If I give up all of myself what will happen? Where will this take me? Those are the questions that keep me from complete surrender. Yet I know that my life is good hands. He will lead me where he wants, he will guide me, take care of me. I have NOTHING to lose by giving up my life entirely to him. In fact, I have EVERYTHING to gain by complete surrender. That's my gift to him this year. A completely surrendered heart not holding anything back what so ever. Tis the only thing I have to offer that is worth anything to him. And when I do, oh boy I do believe that life will surely be different!!!!
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Friday, July 10, 2009
Finding FREEEDOM through F.R.E.E.D.O.M., an issue of the heart...
This post is honest and open….bear with me here…..
I want freedom. Everyone wants freedom from something. Freedom from debt, past mistakes, sin etc. However, freedom comes at a great price and it is a price I am willing to pay. Freedom costs a giving up of something. A battle of the will, emotions, and a battle that is daily. To gain freedom from my issue will take a dying of self, a surrendering to Christ. It will take time to gain this freedom; thankfully the journey has already begun….
For most of my teenage and adult life I have struggled with my weight. It has been a roller coaster ride. Quite honestly struggling with my weight has been the hardest issue I have ever had to deal with on a daily basis. It has brought so many unwanted things in my life. Things I would rather not deal with. It is more than a struggle with weight. It is also a struggle with emotions and the spiritual walk. The unwanted issues it brought into my life are insecurities, no confidence, a low self esteem, a poor self image, lack of self control etc. Struggling with my weight has kept me from some of my hearts deepest and greatest desires. Struggling with my weight has cuased relationship barriers in my life and walls surrounding my heart. A means to keep people from getting close to me. An excuse to do what I want to do.. This struggle began many years ago….
This journey began when I was thirteen or fourteen. I had just ended a serious relationship with someone I once cared about. Instead of taking charge of my emotions I let them get the best of me and I turned to the wrong source of comfort. I was a Christian if you even want to call it that. I didn’t realize how imperative it was to rely on God and to let Him feel the empty void that I felt. I didn’t care about myself. I didn’t care about what I was putting in my mouth or what is was doing to me physically.
I have tried everything from Weight Watchers, calorie counting, eating healthy, exercising you name it… What I realize now is that this is an issue that is much deeper then on a physical level. It is an issue that is at the core of the heart. It is an issue of obedience. It is an issue of submitting to God. It is an issue of relying on my own strength rather than on God’s. It is an issue of my will over God’s. It is an issue of pride. It is an issue of dying to my flesh. It is an issue of not surrendering to Christ. It is an issue of not treating this temple (which is Christ’s, we were bought for a price and we are not our own) right. And at the very core of the issue is rebellion and sin. How I wish I could go back and change. How I wish that I am not where I am today. It has taken me nearly eleven years to realize this. However, the past is behind me and all I can do today is focus one day at a time. I can’t focus on the future because only God knows what my future holds.
What do I have to do in order to gain freedom? I have to first and foremost submit to God and resist the Devil. Facing the temptation to eat is just as much as a temptation kill someone. Secondly, I have to surrender my will. I have to desire what God wants for me over what I want. I have to die to my flesh. I have to literally nail myself to the cross so that my flesh does not rule me. I have to stay in the Word (which teaches me truth that will set me free). I have to be obedient to what God says. I have to keep my eyes ahead and not in the past.
My church has recently started a weight loss group called F.R.E.E.D.O.M. It is based on Biblical principle and Godly advice, healthy eating and exercise. Our first week the group lost about 40 lbs!! Way to go girls!!! What is so amazing is that we have a support group of ladies who are on the same journey. Who are struggling with the same issues. What is great? That most of the ladies are a part of my church family!!!! J I love being able to be a part of a group which I love so much!!!!
Since I have started this journey…which is now going on two weeks…I have started gaining self confidence. I have started feeling the need to fix my hair every day and dress up to go into town. I am relying on God rather than myself. I have been (trying) to die to flesh daily and remembering Philippians 4:13. I have found that I love to work out and really love to eat healthy! I now know that when I rely on His strength I can succeed at weight loss. It may take some time…but like I said…I want freedom from being in bondage to eating…it will cost much…but I will also gain much. I am so thankful that I can turn to God to feel my empty void and He will satisfy it. Just the other day I was reading in the word and I was super hungry…but I had made up my mind to die to my desires and finish reading…that brought such strength to me that day, making myself realize that I can do this!!! I am going to have freedom….Through Christ I can do all things!!!!
I want freedom. Everyone wants freedom from something. Freedom from debt, past mistakes, sin etc. However, freedom comes at a great price and it is a price I am willing to pay. Freedom costs a giving up of something. A battle of the will, emotions, and a battle that is daily. To gain freedom from my issue will take a dying of self, a surrendering to Christ. It will take time to gain this freedom; thankfully the journey has already begun….
For most of my teenage and adult life I have struggled with my weight. It has been a roller coaster ride. Quite honestly struggling with my weight has been the hardest issue I have ever had to deal with on a daily basis. It has brought so many unwanted things in my life. Things I would rather not deal with. It is more than a struggle with weight. It is also a struggle with emotions and the spiritual walk. The unwanted issues it brought into my life are insecurities, no confidence, a low self esteem, a poor self image, lack of self control etc. Struggling with my weight has kept me from some of my hearts deepest and greatest desires. Struggling with my weight has cuased relationship barriers in my life and walls surrounding my heart. A means to keep people from getting close to me. An excuse to do what I want to do.. This struggle began many years ago….
This journey began when I was thirteen or fourteen. I had just ended a serious relationship with someone I once cared about. Instead of taking charge of my emotions I let them get the best of me and I turned to the wrong source of comfort. I was a Christian if you even want to call it that. I didn’t realize how imperative it was to rely on God and to let Him feel the empty void that I felt. I didn’t care about myself. I didn’t care about what I was putting in my mouth or what is was doing to me physically.
I have tried everything from Weight Watchers, calorie counting, eating healthy, exercising you name it… What I realize now is that this is an issue that is much deeper then on a physical level. It is an issue that is at the core of the heart. It is an issue of obedience. It is an issue of submitting to God. It is an issue of relying on my own strength rather than on God’s. It is an issue of my will over God’s. It is an issue of pride. It is an issue of dying to my flesh. It is an issue of not surrendering to Christ. It is an issue of not treating this temple (which is Christ’s, we were bought for a price and we are not our own) right. And at the very core of the issue is rebellion and sin. How I wish I could go back and change. How I wish that I am not where I am today. It has taken me nearly eleven years to realize this. However, the past is behind me and all I can do today is focus one day at a time. I can’t focus on the future because only God knows what my future holds.
What do I have to do in order to gain freedom? I have to first and foremost submit to God and resist the Devil. Facing the temptation to eat is just as much as a temptation kill someone. Secondly, I have to surrender my will. I have to desire what God wants for me over what I want. I have to die to my flesh. I have to literally nail myself to the cross so that my flesh does not rule me. I have to stay in the Word (which teaches me truth that will set me free). I have to be obedient to what God says. I have to keep my eyes ahead and not in the past.
My church has recently started a weight loss group called F.R.E.E.D.O.M. It is based on Biblical principle and Godly advice, healthy eating and exercise. Our first week the group lost about 40 lbs!! Way to go girls!!! What is so amazing is that we have a support group of ladies who are on the same journey. Who are struggling with the same issues. What is great? That most of the ladies are a part of my church family!!!! J I love being able to be a part of a group which I love so much!!!!
Since I have started this journey…which is now going on two weeks…I have started gaining self confidence. I have started feeling the need to fix my hair every day and dress up to go into town. I am relying on God rather than myself. I have been (trying) to die to flesh daily and remembering Philippians 4:13. I have found that I love to work out and really love to eat healthy! I now know that when I rely on His strength I can succeed at weight loss. It may take some time…but like I said…I want freedom from being in bondage to eating…it will cost much…but I will also gain much. I am so thankful that I can turn to God to feel my empty void and He will satisfy it. Just the other day I was reading in the word and I was super hungry…but I had made up my mind to die to my desires and finish reading…that brought such strength to me that day, making myself realize that I can do this!!! I am going to have freedom….Through Christ I can do all things!!!!
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
These WILL NOT inherit the Kingdom of God...
Today as I was reading in Galatians 5, something really caught my eye. I have read these familiar verses many times yet today they seemed to jump off the page at me.
All of my life, I have been taught the Truth. I have grown up in a church that teaches Truth hardcore and I am so thankful that God has placed me in this church. If not for my church and God I don't know where I would be spiritually today...and that is such a scary thought...I can't even fathom what my life would consist of. Wow, I would be one lost soul searching for something I would never be able to find.
As I was reading a few verses really caught my attention. Right now my pastor is teaching is teaching some very basic teachings on truth, yet they are also a very vital part of the Word. He is handing out Bible studies titled "Truth On Trial" they generally take about 15-20 minutes to complete but they are so good.
Truth is something that every one must hear and at some point get ahold of. Hopefully, when we first hear truth we will take the nugget and apply to our daily walk. John 8:32 says "You will know the truth and the truth will set you free." Seems so simple doesn't it? Yet, when we are given truth and we do nothing with it, it becomes sin. James 4:17 says "Remember, it is sin to what you ought to do and then not do it." The Bible tells us certain things to do...like for instance Hebrews 12:2 tells us to-"don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you which is good and pleasing and perfect." What are we be told to do? 1. we are told to not copy what the world does or copy the behavior 2. we are told to let God transform us into a new person 3. we are told to let God change the way we think. When we do these things, we become who He has created us to be AND we have obeyed a piece of truth given to us, when we don't do as this verse tell us to we are sinning according to James 4:17.
Can't believe it took all that to get here. Galatians 5:19-21 says "When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will NOT inherit the Kingdom of God." That is truth. When we live with this type of sin...which it is sin any way that you look at it we will not go and be with our Creator. We will simply will inherit the lake of fire with the god of this world. I don't know about you, but that really makes me think. If I do these things, which in many places in the Bible I am told to put to death the desires of the sinful nature I will not inherit the Kingdom of God. That is the only place I want to be when I die and to inherit His Kingdom, I must take this truth and apply it to myself. If I don't I might as well just sin...and that isn't something that I am willing to do intentionally.
I hope that we all listen to the truth whether we want to hear it or not. It is a matter of life or death. I don't know about you, I would rather listen to the truth and do it then end up in hell.
All of my life, I have been taught the Truth. I have grown up in a church that teaches Truth hardcore and I am so thankful that God has placed me in this church. If not for my church and God I don't know where I would be spiritually today...and that is such a scary thought...I can't even fathom what my life would consist of. Wow, I would be one lost soul searching for something I would never be able to find.
As I was reading a few verses really caught my attention. Right now my pastor is teaching is teaching some very basic teachings on truth, yet they are also a very vital part of the Word. He is handing out Bible studies titled "Truth On Trial" they generally take about 15-20 minutes to complete but they are so good.
Truth is something that every one must hear and at some point get ahold of. Hopefully, when we first hear truth we will take the nugget and apply to our daily walk. John 8:32 says "You will know the truth and the truth will set you free." Seems so simple doesn't it? Yet, when we are given truth and we do nothing with it, it becomes sin. James 4:17 says "Remember, it is sin to what you ought to do and then not do it." The Bible tells us certain things to do...like for instance Hebrews 12:2 tells us to-"don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you which is good and pleasing and perfect." What are we be told to do? 1. we are told to not copy what the world does or copy the behavior 2. we are told to let God transform us into a new person 3. we are told to let God change the way we think. When we do these things, we become who He has created us to be AND we have obeyed a piece of truth given to us, when we don't do as this verse tell us to we are sinning according to James 4:17.
Can't believe it took all that to get here. Galatians 5:19-21 says "When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will NOT inherit the Kingdom of God." That is truth. When we live with this type of sin...which it is sin any way that you look at it we will not go and be with our Creator. We will simply will inherit the lake of fire with the god of this world. I don't know about you, but that really makes me think. If I do these things, which in many places in the Bible I am told to put to death the desires of the sinful nature I will not inherit the Kingdom of God. That is the only place I want to be when I die and to inherit His Kingdom, I must take this truth and apply it to myself. If I don't I might as well just sin...and that isn't something that I am willing to do intentionally.
I hope that we all listen to the truth whether we want to hear it or not. It is a matter of life or death. I don't know about you, I would rather listen to the truth and do it then end up in hell.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Changing outlook and something New
Early this morning I really got to thinking about some things. First, I started to think about my out look on life and what I am showing others. Most people have one of two out looks on life...either positive or negative. I am in between but lean more towards a negative out look. But I began to realize that my out look on life may cause others around me to gain the same perspective. That's not something I want. I want my influence on others to be positive and uplifting. Not negative and depressing. I want them to see that I have something good inside because what Christ has done for me and what He in turn can do for them. Why should life be negative? There is a secret behind this...IT'S CALLED A CHOICE. We don't have to walk around feeling negative. We can CHOOSE to be positive even if life is a little tough. Jesus is always here for us no matter what we go through so we should defiantly something to be positive about!! :D It's also about how we view ourselves. If we think negatively about ourselves then that is what we will portray on the outside. This has been very eye opening for me today, and now I know how to change this negative outlook that I have, by renewing my mind and transforming it through TRUTH! Wow, I am going to change my outlook so that others might be influenced to have a positive out look as well! :)
Now as for trying something new..My goal for this next week is to do something kind for someone. It doesn't have to be big, it could just be a smile to brighten someones day. That is my goal. I want to show kindness to others and this is one way that I have thought about doing it. Don't really know how it will work just in trying stage as of right now! Might call it something like "Make a difference Monday" I used to hear this on the radio and really like d the idea of it. Some of the ways this can work: buy coffee at Starbucks and start a chain reaction. In the line @ 7-11 buy someones drink. Just start doing things that cause others to think and get them to doing the same thing. Just a thought, hope it works out. If you want to join me, send me a message and let me know the ways that you help someone this week!
Now as for trying something new..My goal for this next week is to do something kind for someone. It doesn't have to be big, it could just be a smile to brighten someones day. That is my goal. I want to show kindness to others and this is one way that I have thought about doing it. Don't really know how it will work just in trying stage as of right now! Might call it something like "Make a difference Monday" I used to hear this on the radio and really like d the idea of it. Some of the ways this can work: buy coffee at Starbucks and start a chain reaction. In the line @ 7-11 buy someones drink. Just start doing things that cause others to think and get them to doing the same thing. Just a thought, hope it works out. If you want to join me, send me a message and let me know the ways that you help someone this week!
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